went to see gravity with jeelyn last night... i wanted to see don jon but she says she hates scralet's accent cos it sounds like one of her mentally ill patients
it was an 'ok' movie... some parts were a little intense... i already read the plot on wikipedia so i knew what was gonna happen... unlike jeelyn who kept gasping and clinging onto me
after the movie she asked me for some advice... a close friend of hers wants to borrow some money for some kind of an investment... i flat out told her that i would say no cos it's not really necessary... she's got to draw the line... jeelyn says they have a 15 year friendship, that's why she's afraid to say no to her, which i understand but i said it's not the years of friendship you have with that person... it's whoever left and stayed by your side... i know that's not what she wanted to hear but i had to be honest
turns out the investment was her health insurance... i told jeelyn if i were her, i'd give her some money but no more than $80... if it was that important to her, fine... but i had some mixed feelings... i mean my family back home doesn't even have health insurance... i'd be a hypocrite if i helped out a friend and not my family... but the decision is still up to her
she sounded sad... she said the worst case scenario would be losing her friend... i mean if she's really a friend she wouldn't end the friendship over something like that... is she after you or your money? that's the question... she said she only has one more close friend that she trusts... she told me that whenever she sees her old friends now she doesn't get the same vibe as she did back then... in my opinion? i think they're growing apart, considering the distance between them... your friends are bound to meet other friends that they click with
our convo about the idea of losing her close friends
me: didn't you say you have another close friend if you lose both of them?
jeelyn: umm... idk
me: yes you did.. you said you have another one
jeelyn: i did? who?
me: her name is bo?
.... and she laughs
i hate when she feels sad so i tried to make her laugh
i may not understand what she's going through because i don't have any close friends back home but i could just sense it by the way she talked... it's scary to lose a
went biking this morning with the bro since i ditched him yesterday... mom came along too... went to dreamy draw recreational park... when we got there, a group of ladies were doing zumba or something like that... i like it better there than n.mountain cos it's cement and the trails aren't that steep.... twas a nice bonding moment with the fam... it's moments like this that i'm grateful for... God is always good
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